Oh how I love Tuesdays as it’s “Share your nursery” day! This week we have the lovely Elaine and Angus…
Hiya, I’m Elaine and I have a wee boy called Angus who is 6 months old now. We live in Central Scotland along with our devoted slave Andrew, AKA daddy and hubby.
Becoming a mummy
After 5 years of trying, we were blessed with Angus. Things were really difficult for the first couple of months and due to the problems we had with him not sleeping at all in his moses basket initially, we bought a Toddle Pod which you can see in the picture placed inside the cot which I covered with an extra layer of super cosy fleece as it is winter here in Scotland so gets quite chilly! He has been in that since he was 3 weeks old & I think really helped. I breastfed for 9 weeks & as soon as I changed to formula Angus was like a different baby much more relaxed & happy thank goodness.
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I have found parenting so very hard at times & have recently been diagnosed with post natal depression. I really don’t know what the hardest thing about it is so far but I would have to say the unknown & learning, oh there’s so much to learn all the time! Not to mention all the differing opinions on how things should be done it’s very overwhelming trying to decide on what’s best for you and your baby! The one thing I was not prepared for at all was TEETHING, it is absolute hell. I wish I had known so I could have known what to expect but it hit me really hard. Angus just cannot cope with it at all – you name it, I’ve tried it!!
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Has becoming a parent changed you at all?
I feel that becoming a parent has changed me in that my life revolves around Angus now. Instead of online window shopping for me I’m always buying things for him! I’m also a bit more laid back about life in general and for the first time ever I am usually late for everything now whereas before I was always on time, organised & efficient haha!!
The question on every new parents’ lips – how do you cope with the lack of sleep?
I have been so lucky with Angus. After our initial problems, with guidance from a lovely lady called Lisa Clegg at Blissful Baby Expert (you can find Lisa on Twitter here) we started loosely on a bit of routine which Angus and I both thrived on and he has been sleeping through the night 7pm-7am from around 12 weeks old. I am so grateful for that!
Share your nursery
Did you decorate whilst you were expecting or did you wait until Angus arrived?
Strangely I wasn’t one of those mums to be that obsessed over nursery decor. Our nursery was always a spare room which had plain lilac wallpaper & carpet & some old furniture to store bits in. The plan was when Angus is a bit bigger we will swap rooms with him so we didn’t really see the point in going to the expense of decorating the nursery we would rather save the money and decorate it when he’s a toddler and has a favourite cartoon character etc. We are very short on storage space so I got one of those hooks that goes over the door & I hang his jackets & snow suits on there, which is handy. We had to put Angus in his cot really early and it wouldn’t fit in our room so we have a single bed in his nursery that I sleep in.
I love tatty teddy so I bought a few wall stickers & light switch cover sticker just to baby up the room a wee bit.
What is your favourite part of the nursery?
The main thing I wanted was a nursing chair as I planned to spend a lot of time in it with baby and I’m so glad I did. It has become part of our routine, we cuddle up in it and he knows it’s feed/sleep time and it’s also comfortable for me.
What are the most useful items in the nursery?
I love our Gro-egg. Just a glance lets me know if I should be going to put the heating on or an extra blanket. We got the KUB Madera set of furniture which I absolutely love & I couldn’t live without my changing unit! The undercot drawer is perfect for extra storage also but I’d say my three must have items are my nursing chair, changing unit & the toddle pod!
Is there anything in the nursery that you haven’t used?
The one thing we got that we could’ve done without is his cot mobile although now he likes to look at it for a minute it really serves no purpose as we don’t use it to get him to sleep and he’s not interested in the music either.
If you could have one dream nursery item, what would it be?
My dream nursery item would be a nursing chair but I have it so yay! I really can’t think of anything else I would dream of having. Oh actually yes it would be a video monitor! For some reason I didn’t think it would be necessary but I’ve since changed my mind when I imagine him being able to stand himself up etc!
Thank you Elaine and little sweetie Angus. The Toddle Pod is a fab idea, I may have to look into one of those for our next baby (whenever that may be!!) You can follow Elaine and Angus on Twitter at @MRSMPGD.
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